Week 10 of 14 — Love Rejoices with the Truth
Riding through Port au Prince with my friend Kimberly, I noticed little shops everywhere with "Bric-a-Brac" painted on the front, so I asked Patrick what they were.
"It's a porn shop."
"WHAT? Are you serious?"
"Yeah, what's wrong with that?"
Kimberly and I went from reasonably peaceful passengers to mutinous moralists in half a second. No money for food, gambling on every corner, and PORN SHOPS on every block?! Patrick — a man who loves God, faithful to his wife, church every week — just kept shrugging. "Why's it bad?" We yelled. He defended. We yelled louder. Who is this man's pastor?
Then it hit me like Babe Ruth's bat hit a baseball. Patrick grew up in Connecticut and didn't move back to Haiti until his twenties. He's the same guy who calls a vegetable patch a "gahdin."
He wasn't saying porn. He was saying PAWN. A Bric-a-Brac is a pawn shop.
Patrick was safe on first the whole time we had him out in left field. And there I was, with a half-truth in one hand and a verdict in the other, ready to convict a good man over a missing letter R. That's how it works, isn't it? We hear a piece of a story, fill in the worst, and pass it along. A lot of gossip is delighting in evil with sprinkles of envy on top. Love wants the whole story — the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but. Love asks one more question before it picks up the gavel.
Refuse to pass along anything this week that you haven't verified — no gossip, no half-stories, no "did you hear." When you're tempted, ask one more question and get the whole truth first.
What story did you almost pass along today without checking it?
What bad news did you enjoy a little today? Be honest.
Where did you assume the worst and turn out wrong? Porn or pawn?
What one question would have changed a conversation today if you'd asked it?
What truth did you get to celebrate today?
Lord Jesus, help. Open my eyes to not buy into evil and crave, seek, thirst for truth, the truth that love rejoices in. Help me to know when truth needs to triumph over culture quicker.
Where did a half-truth almost take you this week? What changed when you got the whole story?